Can I Short Sale my home to a relative?
Can I Short Sale My Property To A Family Member?
The short answer to the question of whether you can short sale your property to a family member or friend is generally “no”. While it technically depends on the short sale lender’s requirements – nearly all lenders will require that you sign an arms-length affidavit as part of the short sale process.
Why Does The Lender Require An Arms Length Affidavit?
The primary reason banks want to prevent short sales to family members of the homeowner is to prevent sellers from profiting from the short sale, as well as to prevent short sale fraud. In many cases involving non-arms length short sales, the relative or friend is simply acting as a “straw buyer”. The lender wants to prevent a situation where the seller makes an unofficial side agreement with a relative or a friend where the friend or relative will purchase the house in a short sale, then transfer title back to the seller once the transaction has closed, and the seller has been granted forgiveness for the deficiency.
In this situation, the seller would not only have gotten their house back, but they will have been able to avoid foreclosure, keep their home, and had their debt forgiven. Essentially, the initial homeowner gets their debt forgiven and also gets to keep their house.
Arms Length Affidavits & Fraud
In addition to preventing sellers from taking advantage of short sales to keep their home at a loss to the lender, mortgage lenders use arms length affidavits to combat outright mortgage fraud. In these cases, the short sale arms length affidavit isn’t designed to stop a relative or friend from trying to help out a distressed homeowner by purchasing their property and renting or selling it back to them – it is put in place to stop dishonest sellers, short sale realtors, short sale negotiators, and even appraisal agents from working together to defraud lenders. While nothing about signing
arms length affidavits will stop those determined to commit mortgage fraud, the arms length takes away any legal gray area and gives the parties nowhere to hide from prosecution if the lender later discovers collusion between the parties.
Secret flipping deals are one example of the type of short sale fraud that arms length affidavits are designed to combat. This is where the borrower or the borrower’s agent may hide a higher offer from the mlender and use a straw buyer – such as a friend or family member – to act as buyer in a short sale. The borrower can then flip the property to the outside buyer, potentially reaping tens of thousands of dollars in profit that should have rightfully gone to the lender.
Another example of short sale short sale fraud is committed by dishonest short sale negotiators/Realtors and broker price opinion (BPO) agents. BPO agents are hired by the lender to assess the value of the property in question so that the lender can make an informed decision on whether or not to approve the short sale. However, some short sale negotiators or Realtors will make secret agreements with dishonest BPO agents, asking them to offer lower valuations, fabricate issues with the property in question, and otherwise push the reported value of the home downward so that the negotiator can have a straw buyer purchase the property at a lowered value and flip it at the home’s actual market value.
What Clauses Are Included In A Short Sale Arms Length Affidavit?
An arm’s length transaction affidavit will include numerous terms designed to prevent the seller from selling their property to a straw buyer, make
hidden agreements, or move back into the property. The arms length affidavit will also usually require disclosure of any other contracts or agreements that the seller may have regarding resale of the property. While the actual clauses and language of an arm’s length affidavit will vary from transaction to transaction and lender to lender, here are some of the basic clauses you will need to include in an arms-length affidavit for the lender to approve your short sale:
- None of the parties in the short sale contract
are family members or business associates of the seller, nor do any of them
hold a shared business interest with the seller. - There are no hidden contracts or agreements
between the buyers, sellers or the agents in the transaction - The seller agrees not to rent back the home or
retake title once the short sale closes - None of the parties in the short sale contract
are receiving compensation for their part in the arm’s length transaction,
except for the realtor who receives a commission
In addition to the terms of the affidavit, according to Freddie Mac, best practices for a short sale arm’s length affidavit should include the following elements:
- The name of the servicer
- The property address
- The servicer’s loan number
- The notarized signatures of the seller(s) and
buyer(s) - The notarized signatures of the seller and
buyer’s realtor - The notarized signatures of the closing/escrow
agent or the lawyer who performed the closing - The notarized signature of any 3rd
party short sale negotiators (if applicable)
What Are The Legal Consequences Of Violating An Arms Length Affidavit
The legal consequences of knowingly violating an arms-length affidavit are extremely severe. The violation could be classified as mortgage fraud – which is a federal offence – and investigated by the FBI. If you want to stay out of jail and avoid paying crippling fines and damages, it is highly advised that you don’t attempt to get around the provisions of an arms-length affidavit, and to consult a lawyer if you are planning anything that could remotely be perceived as violating the terms of the arms length affidavit.
Ultimately, no American lender in this day and age will approve a short sale without an arms-length affidavit with terms in place to protect the lender from mortgage fraud. This can be unfortunate in situations where a relative or friend wants to help out their loved one in need by purchasing their home and renting it back to them. However, whether the intentions are pure and noble or purely for profit, the wording of standard arms length affidavits will any short sale between non-arms length parties, hidden agreements, or any situation where the seller moves back into the home after the short sale.
It’s very important to make sure you have a trustworthy, knowledgeable, skillful and most importantly, experienced Short Sale Specialist Realtor with you during your short sale. Contacting one of our agents right now will help you with anymore questions you may have. Don’t worry, it’s free and so are our services for your short sale! Can’t beat that, so contact us now!
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Let’s first understand the concept of a short sale. As well as procedures and the time it takes to do a short sale. What is a short sale? A short sale happens when the bank agrees to sell the home for less than the remaining amount owed. This concept causes financial loss to the bank and it is obvious that it is not easily agreed upon.
Above mentioned are the reasons why short sales take so long to complete. Most of the time the request is not accepted and the bank looks into other options that can help it earn the money that has been invested. After all a mortgage is an investment by the bank and it cannot accept loses. A bank is also a business; a money lending business and for it, a loss is as bad as any other organization.









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Many American homeowners are finding it difficult to hold on to their underwater homes because of a decrease in income or some other type of financial hardship. A short sale offers solutions to these delinquent borrowers!
Foreclosure is an embarrassing legal process pursued by lenders if the borrower becomes default on his mortgage agreement. The consequences of this process on the financial status of the borrower are far reaching and often irreparable. In addition to losing the home, the debtor has to suffer from a bad credit score, a deficiency judgment, ineligibility to obtain a new mortgage loan, and on the top of it all, mental dejection and sense of guilt.
A short sale takes place when a lender agrees to receive less money as compared to the balance owed by his borrower. When the borrower cannot control his monthly payments and is also perturbed by the increasing difference between what he owes on the property and its actual worth, he persuades the lender to agree to short sale the house and suffer the loss (the difference between the balance and market value). A lender agrees to suffer this loss because he wants to shun greater loss that would be incurred through a foreclosure.
